thinking Jesus

Hugging Jesus

2012-01-31T04:48:00.001-08:00

I was praying recently, more talking with God then actual head bowed, on my knees praying. I seem to do that more the older I become. On-going conservations about this crazy life and how He is going to get me through it because I definitely can’t do it on my own, are what get me through my hectic days.

God understands me and He’s probably the only One who really does. He realizes that I have a tendency to look like a complete moron in front of people I greatly admire. He knows when I get nervous, I tend to interrupt and He probably cringes, too, when I stick my foot so far in my mouth that I feel like I’m going to choke to death.

He is aware of the fact that the more I study, the more questions I have. He sees my faith evolving and gets that I’m still trying to figure it all out. He knows that I wish Christians would quit using terms like conservative and liberal and just get along the way He intended. I’m sure He sighs and shakes his head sometimes as I stumble down the pathway of life.

So we were discussing love the other day.

I have no problem loving my children, my husband, and other family members. I even love my friends and job but they’re easy to love. They’re tangible. Let’s be honest- God isn’t that easy to love. It’s hard to love someone that you can’t hold, touch, or see. That’s where faith comes in and fills up the cracks in our relationship. We discussed my shortcomings in that department. I talked. He listened.

I couldn’t help thinking of our conversation throughout the day and fought the feelings of guilt that seemed to come with it. I’d like to think that I am a strong Christian. I hope that I could describe myself as being in love with Jesus but I want to love them more.

So that evening as my youngest child cuddled up beside me, I wrapped my arms around her and every now and then would gently hug her closer to me. It was then when I finally started to grasp the answer to my dilemma. I can touch God. I can hug Jesus.

They are there in the eyes of my sweet child. The innocence, the smile of full trust, and total love.

When I thought back over my life, I could see them. Both of them were there in the loving and accepting eyes of my parents, husband, and the first cries of my newborns.

They were also there in the hard times. I know they were because even in the midst of grief and discouragement, I’ve always had hope of a better day.

I’ve seen them in the smiles of the homeless and at work in the lives of the school children I encounter daily. I felt them when I prayed with a sweet friend on her death bed.

So I thanked God again for the subtle way He chose to answer this prayer and after I tucked my youngest into her bed, I drifted to sleep ever so peacefully in mine.

I don’t put much stock into dreams. Some of mine are bizarre and rarely do I ever remember them. This one, however, has lingered and I’m glad.

We were on the Parkway; the one close to my house. The same one that has fatal car accidents every now and then. My husband was driving and our car was packed with family. I was sitting in the back seat in the middle with my children and my husband’s aunt was in the passenger seat. As we came around the sharp curve on the ramp, the car slowly drifted off the side.

It only took a second or two to go completely off the road. I remember bowing my head to pray as we headed straight down, careening actually into the neighborhood that lay below. I remember the way my children screamed.

I was surprised by how the car landed. Not with a thud, bang, or even a jerk. It sailed to the ground ever so gently and the doors opened automatically.

Once out of the car, we were greeted by several people. None looked familiar. As we walked with them, I turned toward the car and saw what had actually happened. Our blue Buick had left the Parkway and plummeted through the air. As soon as it hit the ground, it burst into flames.

I wasn’t shocked. As dreams go, I accepted it and when I turned back around, saw a room that was small but large enough to hold hundreds if not thousands. There were bleachers of people on each side. They were close but not within reach.

I continued to scan the room and then turned to my left and saw a long banquet table. At one end, people gathered around a man. I wish I could describe what he looked like, but I can’t remember. (I couldn't even remember the moment I woke.) I stood and watched him laugh and talk with the other people fully aware that He was Jesus. The way he smiled and listened and every now and then patted someone on the shoulder or hugged them encouraged me to walk closer.

Within seconds, I stood beside him and waited as he talked with others. He turned to me and smiled with a smile I recognized even though I had never seen it before. That’s when I hugged him. I held on tightly and remember the way his shoulders felt. They were solid and real. After a while, I told Him I had to find my parents and He nodded.

Before I knew it, I was walking through throngs of people. I remember the shock of seeing someone that I didn't think should have made it to Heaven. Wish I could remember who that was. I’d like to call them and apologize.

I woke and felt a bit disappointed that all this had just been a dream. I know a day will come though when I’ll stand in front of Jesus. I’m looking forward to that hug. Until then, I’ll be sure to look for him in those people and moments I encounter every day.

Put your life in the hands of a God who will one day hold you tightly. He'll get you through this crazy life. I promise.

Prayer List

2012-01-29T10:28:00.000-08:00

At the beginning of class, we write down the names of people (or animals) we'd like to pray for. It is a very serious process but sometimes I have trouble keeping a straight face.

Known

2012-01-26T05:00:00.000-08:00

Jesus says that everyone will know us by our love but who exactly does He mean?

Could it be the:

homeless?

homosexual?

incarcerated?

widow?

orphan?

divorced?

drug addict?

hungry?

abused?

abuser?

Maybe even those:

in the Baptist, Catholic, Methodist, Pentecostal, or Presbyterian churches?

in the synagogue or at the Mosque?

with a different skin color, a different language, and different custom?

So I ask you, do others know you by your love? Are you actively loving others outside the church building doors? Is your congregation? Are you busy in your community?

Jesus doesn’t say that others will know we belong to Him by how firmly we stand on doctrinal issues. He doesn’t say that we’ll be known by how many are warming a pew on Sunday morning.

He mentions nothing about the contribution, the Bible classes, or how popular your minister may or may not be.

When someone in your community mentions the church of Christ, do others immediately think of how much we love? If not, why not?

The church should be actively serving, loving, and changing the community because folks, we’re going to be known by our love and, sadly, we’re also going to be known by our lack of it.

the God of Love

2012-01-25T04:52:00.000-08:00

I've heard too many sermons on the God of Rules, the God of Judgement, and the God of the Few. We need more sermons on the God of Mercy, the God of Healing, and the God of Love.

Click here to read my latest article on the God of Love.

The Playlist

2012-01-21T15:12:00.000-08:00

It used to be on the CD or iPod, now it's usually Spotify blaring through the house. And even when the music is off, I still think of these lyrics and remind myself that God is in charge.

Stress lessens when these are playing. Hope you enjoy them.

Not only did Casting Crowns play this at their recent concert, but this video was playing on the screen while they did. (It didn't have the ads at the end though. Wish this didn't either.)

I love this song. Matt wrote it to his unborn son after finding out that the baby had a heart defect.

The Masterpiece

2012-01-18T04:36:00.000-08:00

The world is going to tell you that you're not pretty enough, tall enough, skinny enough, rich enough, or smart enough. It's going to feed you the myth that you don't measure up to your friends, coworkers, family, or latest magazine covers.

It's sole intent is to beat you down and make you feel worthless without that certain product or that certain person. It will scream that you don't matter and you never will.

As you're buying those lies, God will quietly whisper that you're beautiful, you're worthy, and you're His masterpiece. You don't have to believe Him. You can wallow in self pity and tell yourself that you're are nothing. You can call to mind your shortcomings, your temptations, and your failures. You can meditate on your painful past or you can listen to the One who knows you. The One who sees you go from here to there and knows your thoughts and words before they ever touch your lips.

You can't run from Him even though you've tried. You can't hide or hope he doesn't see you.

He knows you well and loves you dearly despite your imperfections and regardless of the fact that you think you're nothing.

Turn off the speakers of this world and plug yourself into His Word. Believe that you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139). Know and understand that He says you are worth it and if He says it, it's true.

You're not perfect but He doesn't expect you to be. He just wants you to look in the mirror and see how beautiful you really are.

Dream On

2012-01-16T07:02:00.000-08:00

Today, I'm thankful for good people who aren't afraid to step up, stand out, & make a difference. For those who see a problem and decide to fix it. For those who don't let their own troubles keep them from helping the hurting, neglected, and lonely. I appreciate the ones who believe in a brighter day and work for the benefit of others.

You can be that person, too. On this day & everyday, hear and know that you have the ability & opportunity to make this world a better place.

Dream it, believe it, and then achieve it.

Loving Jesus vs Hating Religion

2012-01-13T11:15:00.001-08:00

The I Love Jesus, but Hate Religion video that went viral this past week was posted and reposted by several of my Facebook friends. There surely had to be something wrong with me then when I watched the other evening and then sat in a quiet room puzzled.

I agreed with some of it but the majority of the statements bothered me. Why was I so offended by a video that was making such a powerful impression on so many? I watched again and still couldn’t grasp the feelings it radiated.

It took some reasoning before it dawned on me- Jesus is not only my Savior, He is my religion. He is the reason I do what I do and what I don’t.

He’s the One who gave His life for a lost world to be able to come together in one place-in Him. He rescued us. Not because we were good enough or had something to offer but because He loved and still loves.

How can I separate the One who died for me from the way of life I should be living in response to His life and death? I can’t. It’s impossible.

Jesus came here to change the world and He will do that by the religion that He left, Christianity. You can’t take Christ out of Christianity. Yes, some have tried. Sadly, there are those who have twisted His teachings to satisfy worldly desires and have done great harm.

Yet, there are others who love Jesus whole heartedly and still daily fail to follow as we should. He knows it and He offers forgiveness. But I want you to hear what one follower once said, “Don’t judge Christ by those of us who so imperfectly wear His name. “

Young people,

I’m glad the video touched a nerve with you. I appreciate the fact that you want to change the world and I completely believe that through Christ, you can. However, please don’t ever think that the church that Jesus established is not worth His blood or your time.

Don’t be fooled into thinking that religion cannot do great things.

Never forget that there is a monumental difference between worldly religions instituted by man and the religion that Christ began. One thrives on intimidation and hypocrisy; the other on love and grace.

Christ built His church, not with bricks and stones, but in the hearts and lives of average, everyday people like you and me. People who stumble, fall, and sometimes act like idiots. Imperfect people who don’t have all the answers but follow the One who does.

Don’t buy into the teaching that you can have Christ without His church and feel free to be highly offended when someone wants to offer you such.

Older friends,

We have got to stop acting like we have it all together. It’s time to take off our masks and let others see that we are fallible and striving. The church isn’t a club that sets guidelines to manipulate and regulate other Christians. As said in the video, it is a hospital for the broken. Let’s not be afraid of that statement but willing to reach out to others to show that our lives aren’t perfect but we love the One who is regardless of what we go through. Don’t follow Him because you're afraid of Hell or because your parents or family expect you to. Follow Him because you love Him.

Let’s face it; we are the reason that young people look for their salvation in the world. We’re too busy to take the time to spend with them. We preach one message and live another. We’re pew warmers not world changers. Get serious. I challenge you; get involved in a young person’s life. Be their good example. In a world of heartache and sin, show them Jesus. You need them as much as they need you.

Christians,

Read the Bible. I know this sounds overtly simple but everything that God wants you to know is written plainly for you to see. Crack the book, you can know Jesus. You can know His will for your life but you can’t do it without Him, His Word, or His people. Don’t forget that the Devil wants to divide and conquer. Don’t give him the chance.

Christ is your Savior. He’s also your religion however, never forget that true religion ceases when it becomes routine and empty.

Live so that when others think of religion they think of righteousness, humility, love, truth, and Christ. No one ever said that this mission would be easy, just possible.

Help for Homestead

2012-01-10T15:45:00.000-08:00

The following is from Mike and Karen Hoots. Please consider helping with the work in Homestead, Fl. The link at the bottom of this message is to the Christian Chronicle article detailing the work there.

Hello Brother, Sisters and Friends:

Karen and I want to thank all of you for your prayers and love throughout the years. Your prayers are paying off. The Lord's work is blossoming and coming to a head as if it is about to explode. All three congregations that the Lord has used us to get started are doing well and growing. They have become self-supporting and self-sufficient. It is great watching what the Lord has done as we see these congregations working on their own. It leaves us with mixed feelings similar to the feeling of watching your child grow up and move out on their own.

Presently, our main concentration is on the Homestead church of Christ. This congregation, at one time, was over 200 members and is down in the thirties. But God has opened their hearts and it is now starting to grow again through us working through J4L (Jesus 4 Life) ministries, which is a youth group of over 170 people ranging from 4 to 29 years old and Redland Christian Academy. We are now reaching to their families, and bringing them to the Homestead congregation. It is a fun church planting, working through the children to reach the parents.

Karen has started working part-time at her secular job so she can help me oversee the work going on here and start ministering and studying the Bible with adults. Since the beginning of the year she has already made several connections, made visitations and has started a Bible study with a mother and her daughter. The fields here have been plowed, planted and are now ready for the harvest.

We do need your help. We need to raise $400.00 a month in support since we are losing $650.00 worth of support that we budgeted so Karen could work with us. We were trying to raise enough so she wouldn't have to work two days at her old secular job but that didn't happen, so God opened the door for her to work part time, but we do need to raise the $400.00 a month. We are praying for maybe four congregations or individuals who could partner with us at $100.00 a month. If $100.00 is not possible, any amount will help us get closer to our need.

Please prayerfully consider this plea, and get out the word to anyone or any congregation that you know. We do have a support package we can send out to anyone who is interested.

Thank you in advance for your prayerful consideration of partnering with us in this ministry.

In Service to our King,
Mike & Karen Hoots

Click here to read the Christian Chronicle article.

No One Matters

2012-01-07T12:23:00.000-08:00

Speak encouraging words to one another. Build up hope so you'll all be together in this, no one left out, no one left behind… I Thessalonians 5:11 (MESSAGE)

I came across this the other morning. I stopped and tried to process it, especially the last part, no one left behind, no one left out.

No one? These words hit home. In essence, Paul was talking to the church at Thessalonica. These people had a lot of questions but they were striving to live right. They had pledged their allegiance to the one, true God. Their love, hope, and faith were wrapped up in Christ. I could relate to them. They were easy to like. They would be easy to fight for.

But the more I read it, the more the big picture began to emerge. My mind drifted to John 3:16, I Timothy 2:4, and 2 Peter 3:9.

No one cuts into my life, my time. Honestly, no one gets on my nerves and pushes beyond my comfort zone because no one includes everyone even the abuser, addict, homeless, hater, and oppressor. The incarcerated, liar, murderer, and molester.

The one who thinks they have it all together and the one who thinks they’re so lost, they’ll never make it.

The one who daily searches the Scriptures and the one who doesn’t care enough to even crack the Book.

The one who lives differently from me, votes differently from me, and looks differently from me. And that’s ok because it’s not about me. It’s not about the ones I have a problem with or the ones I don’t.

It’s about a God who loved enough, cared enough, and gave enough.

We dress up on Sunday mornings and drive to our million dollar buildings and sing easy-to-sing songs. We pray easy-to-pray prayers to a Savior who is like us.

Our Jesus is middle class and wears designer suits. His cologne is name-brand and His car is worth coveting. His degree is from that Christian college, you know, the one we like. The one we support. The one with the best professors and most popular lectureships. Our Jesus surely wouldn’t have a problem hanging around with us. But I wondered, would He even want to?

Would He sit on the pew beside us? Or would He be in the neighborhood that we’re too afraid to drive through?

Would He preach a thirty-five minute sermon in our nicely decorated pulpit with exactly three bullet points? Or would He be serving in the soup kitchen?

Would our Jesus, or what we perceive Him to be, come close to being like He really is? Would we recognize Him? Would we be disappointed? How far off the mark are we?

The God we want and the God who is don’t always measure up and thank goodness for that because my world view is much too limited for my God. My questions outweigh my answers and my patience, too often, runs thin.

So the next time I’m dealing with someone I have a problem loving or the next time I want to choose who gets salvation and who doesn’t, I hope those words come back to me. No one left behind, no one left out. Let me remember and appreciate the fact that He desires no one to be lost and He expects me to work on that.

I won’t lie; I don’t always live up to His expectations. In fact, I’m sometimes afraid of them and I’m ok with Him knowing that. Because no one means everyone. Even me.

Who is Jesus?

2012-01-04T14:32:00.000-08:00

I'm getting ready to turn the following into a poster for the Kindergarten Bible Class. This is a conglomerate of several I've found on the Internet. I've tweaked it here and there and hope to make more changes to bring it down to a level my kids could grasp.

What would you add or delete?

Feel free to leave suggestions for edits in the comments section.

Who is Jesus?

In Genesis, He is the Creator.
In Exodus, He is the Passover Lamb.
In Leviticus, He is our High Priest.
In Numbers, He is the Pillar of Cloud by Day and the Pillar of Fire by night.
In Deuteronomy, He is the Prophet like unto Moses.
In Joshua, He is the Captain of our Salvation.
In Judges, He is our Judge and Lawgiver.
In Ruth, He is our Kinsman Redeemer.
In 1 & 2 Samuel, He is our Trusted Prophet.
In 1 & 2 Kings, He is the Lord our King
In 1 & 2 Chronicles, He is our Reigning King.
In Ezra, He is our Faithful Scribe.
In Nehemiah, He is the Rebuilder of the Broken Down Walls of Life.
In Esther, He is our Mordecai.
In Job, He is our Ever-Living Redeemer.
In Psalms, He is our Shepherd.
In Proverbs & Ecclesiastes, He is our Wisdom.
In Songs of Solomon, He is our Loving Bridegroom.
In Isaiah, He is the Prince of Peace.
In Jeremiah, He is the Balm of Gilead.
In Lamentations, He is our Weeping Prophet.
In Ezekiel, He is the Descendant of David.
In Daniel, He is Fourth Man in Life's Fiery Furnace.
In Hosea, He is the Faithful Husband.
In Joel, He is the Baptizer with the Holy Ghost and Fire.
In Amos, He is our Burden Bearer.
In Obadiah, He is Mighty to Save.
In Jonah, He is our Great Foreign Missionary.
In Micah, He is the Messenger with Beautiful Feet.
In Nahum, He is the Avenger of God's Elect.
In Habakkuk, He is God's Evangelist crying "Revive the works in the midst of the years".
In Zephaniah, He is our Savior.
In Haggai, He is the Restorer of God's Lost Heritage.
In Zechariah, He is the Fountain Opened up in the House of David for Sin and Uncleanliness.
In Malachi, He is the Son of Righteousness Rising with Healing in His Wings.

In Matthew, He is King of the Jews.
In Mark, He is the Servant.
In Luke, He is the Son of Man Feeling What You Feel.
In John, He is the Son of God.
In Acts, He is the Savior of the World.
In Romans, He is the Righteousness of the God.
In 1 Corinthians, He is the Rock and Foundation of Israel.
In 2 Corinthians, He is the Triumphant One Giving Victory.
In Galatians, He is Your Liberty. He set you free.
In Ephesians, He is the Head of the Church.
In Philippians, He is our Joy.
In Colossians, He is our Completeness.
In 1 and 2 Thessalonians, He is our Hope.
In 1 Timothy, He is our Faith.
In 2 Timothy, He is our Stability.
In Philemon, He is our Benefactor.
In Titus, He is Truth.
In Hebrews, He is our Perfection.
In James, He is the Power Behind our Faith.
In 1 Peter, He is our Example.
In 2 Peter, He is our Purity.
In 1 John, He is our Life.
In 2 John, He is our Pattern.
In 3 John, He is our Motivation.
In Jude, He is the Foundation of our Faith.
In Revelation, He is our Coming King.

The New Year

2011-12-29T13:02:00.000-08:00

As we bid good-bye to one year and usher in a new one, many in the world will make resolutions hoping to make a change in their lives. Here are four easy steps, found in the New Testament, to help us do just that:

We Will Honor Others

As we usher in another year, we will show honor to all people. Even though some in the world may justify withholding honor or respect due to a person’s behavior or status, we, as Christians, will remember that Christ died for all men (1 Peter 3:18), and we have a responsibility to love and show honor to all.

We will Love the Brotherhood

As this New Year arrives, we will strive to love and encourage God’s people. We will be determined to put the interests of others above our own (Romans 12:10; Philippians 2:3-4;Galatians 6:10). We will strive for unity and refuse to let our brother stumble. Love will be our motto and teaching Jesus to a dying world will be our mission.

We will Fear God

We will remember each day that our purpose is found in Ecclesiastes 12:13. We will fear God and keep his commandments and, in doing so, will strengthen our faith and lead others to Christ. We will teach our children, not only those in our family, but those in our communities and congregations. We will make a difference in this world and we will do it for the glory of God. We will fear our Lord but we will be courageous in our mission to bring others to Him.

We will Respect our Rulers

We will honor the government, regardless of whether we agree with those in power or not. We will remember that we are subject to the governing authorities, and there is no authority that exists that isn’t appointed by our God (Romans 13:1). We will be honorable; however, as soldiers of Christ, we will not sit idly by and let the evils in this world lead others astray. We will stand up for what is good and right but we will do so in a respectful manner.

The words of Peter are as relevant today as they were in the first century, “Honor all people. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king” (I Peter 2:17).

Four simple steps to be lead us this into this New Year and closer to Christ. I’m looking forward to 2012 regardless of what it may bring.

Fasten your seatbelts, this is going to be a wild ride.

New Wineskins

2011-12-26T07:05:00.000-08:00

The popular web-zine New Wineskins relaunches January 2012. You can read my article regarding Christmas here:

My Views on Christmas & Why They Changed

The Wise Still Seek Him

2011-12-24T09:32:00.000-08:00

We don’t know much about them. Scripture says they were from the East. They stood before Herod and inquired of the Christ child, the King of the Jews. Matthew 2:11 tells us that they entered the house where Mary, Joseph, and the baby were, a stark contradiction to the nativity scenes that place them in the stable.

We aren't told that there were three of them but we do know that they came bearing gifts: gold, frankincense, and myrrh. We are also well aware that they were religious men. We know they traveled many miles in search of a precious baby whose birth was foretold outside the city limits of Bethlehem.

As wise as they might’ve been, there were some things that even they didn’t know.

They didn’t know about the leper healed, the Centurion’s faith, or how Jesus would someday rebuke the winds.

They hadn’t heard His parables or knew of his followers, men and women alike, who left all they had to follow the young man from Nazareth.

They didn’t know that He would someday bless the little children and disappoint a rich young ruler.

Would they ever know that he turned water into wine, conversed with a Samaritan woman, or raised a dead man named Lazarus?

Could they have imagined the horror of the plot to kill Him and the offense at the close friend who would betray Him?

They would never be captivated as they stood in the garden nor would they stand in awe at an empty tomb.

They weren’t able to read the story of His resurrection or know the details of the first Christians and what they gave for their faith.

Yes, they were called wise but they would never be as wise as we are. So when you think of that little baby in the manger, remember the man on the cross. The conqueror over death, the lion of the tribe of Judah, the Savior, and the King. He is the reason not for the season, but for every day, every minute, every breath.

Merry Christmas!

Buying Bibles!

2011-12-22T08:40:00.001-08:00

UPDATE!

Fundraising for Bibles for Bolivia is over.

Our goal of $300 was met in just four days! Thanks to friends, family, and internet friends around the world for contributing!

The sweetest contribution came from a little six year old who is spending the day with me. Apparently, he's heard me talking about this project this morning. After I told him that he could keep a penny he found on the floor, he said, "No, you can have it. You can buy a Bible with it."

Once all the checks are in, the Calvert City church of Christ will issue a check to Lone Oak church of Christ to be deposited into the account of Jessie Cope.

I can't wait to hear how God uses your generosity to bless others in Bolivia.

Thank you again!
In Christ,
Paula Harrington

Bibles for Bolivia!

2011-12-15T05:21:00.001-08:00

I have had the privilege of knowing Jessica Cope her entire life. Jessie is a missionary in Sucre, Bolivia with the AIM program. I’ve been friends with her mother for nearly 40 years. Her grandparents were good friends of my parents and worshipped where my dad preached in the 70s.

I received Jessie’s Adventures in Missions newsletter recently detailing the work she and others are doing in Bolivia for the Lord and learned that they are in desparate need of Bibles in the Quechua language. This language has different dialects and finding a Bible in the USA in the language and dialect of her area has proven to be impossible.

After talking to numerous people in three countries, a decision was made that the best avenue for this project would be to raise money and let the mission team buy the Bibles in and around Sucre.

Bibles are going to be around $20. We hope to raise enough money for 15 to 20 Bibles. The elders at the Calvert City church of Christ have agreed to oversee this money.

Would you please be willing to donate to this cause? If so, send your check to:

Calvert City Church of Christ
ATTN: Paula Harrington
(Please specify money is for Bibles for Bolivia)
PO Box 466
Calvert City, KY 42029

Jessica and her team have agreed to do the shopping. Please pray for this. These people need Bibles. Let's get them some.

Thank you and God bless.

Who I Am

2011-12-10T07:09:00.001-08:00

This was the first song I heard yesterday morning and the last before I went to bed. Amazing how that works out sometimes. I don't know about you, but I forget what's important too easily. The day-to-day stress of dealing with people, problems, and pride gets to me more than I like to admit.

I need that reminder of who I am, what I'm doing here, and where He needs to be.

This crazy life isn't about me. It's not about you, either. It's about a God who called us worthy long before we ever were.

It's about a Savior who didn't have to give up his place in Heaven. Didn't have to come here. Didn't have to suffer and die. But He did. And He did it out of love.

So, forgive me Lord, when I let this life get to me.

Forgive me when I neglect my purpose.

Forgive me when I fail to love.

And please, dear Lord, don't ever stop reminding me who I am.

Nothing New Under the Sun?

2011-12-08T04:50:00.000-08:00

It's all old news. Let that inspire and encourage you in your walk with Christ.

Click here for my latest article at Forthright. It's about your story.

The Suicide

2011-11-30T18:33:00.000-08:00

Years ago, my grandfather a minister within the churches of Christ, preached a sermon about suicide. This service was publicized in the local paper, radio, and on the television and to no one’s surprise, when the night came, the pews were full.

All these years later, my heart breaks as I think about a woman in a neighboring county who took her own life over the weekend.

I wish I could have talked to her. I wish I could have sat with her and reminded her of the day her children were born.

I wish she could have heard their first cries again.

I wish she could have counted their little toes and sang them another lullaby.

I would have watched for as long as she wanted to rock them for the first time all over again.

I wish she could have heard that first laugh and saw how their faces lit up when she walked in the room to pick them up from their afternoon nap.

I wish I could have walked with her as she took each of them to their first day of school or heard them talk about their day when it was over.

I would have held her hand during the crazy teen years to let her know that she wasn’t alone. I would have related my own hectic time raising teens just to let her know that someone else had been there.

I wish I could have shown her the future.

That day in May when the world celebrates their Mother’s. I wish she knew how much her children dreaded that day.

I would show her the empty seat at the birthday parties, the Christmas', Thanksgivings, and weddings.

I wish I could tell her how badly her daughters would need her when they had their first child.

I'd laugh with her as we’d watch her grandchildren playing at the park.

I’d show her the valleys that we all walk through and then hold her hand when we reached the mountain. I would tell her that there is hope. There is always hope.

I would tell her over and over that there was nothing so horrible that she had done or nothing so awful that had been done to her that could keep her from the love of her God.

I would be sure not to judge, preach, or throw Bible verses in her face.

I would hug her and let her know that life is never void of problems. I’d let her know that the journey is hard and stressful. It’s more difficult alone though. With God, it’s manageable. Not perfect. Not easy, but manageable.

I would pray for her. I would pray with her and I would do anything and everything in my power to help her.

But I can’t.

I can’t change the decision she made over the weekend.

There aren’t any words to utter that might make this more bearable for her parents, her children, or her husband.

There is nothing now except a raw, festering wound where her family’s hearts once were. Time will ease the pain but the hurt will stay forever.

I just wish I could have told her that.

My God

2011-11-23T07:26:00.000-08:00

When I was a child, my God was great. He made the rainbows, sunsets, and filled the puddles so I could splash through them. And he did it all for me. My life was consumed with him and his people.

When my father died, God whispered that everything would be alright. I hardly remember a night that went by that we didn’t talk until I fell asleep. Although he never answered the whys or how comes, he promised to always be near.

Not once did I ever doubt his love for me. He was reliable and true. He was bigger than my problems and held my life in his hands. He cried along as I wept and sang over me as I played. Trusting him came naturally but that was when I was a kid.

As I grew older, my God changed or at least I thought he did. I refused to see him as he was and instead viewed him with a rebellious heart. He littered my path with trials.

Rarely did he seem to be close. He had too many rules that I could never follow. I seldom took the time to be around his people. When I looked back at the sad times, instead of seeing a God who got me through them, I saw a God who refused to stop them.

It took a long time to realize that it was me who had changed through those years, not my God. He was as powerful and faithful as always. However, I was far from that innocent, little girl.

Too often, we lose sight of the God of our youth. We view him through selfish and shattered hearts and allow our bond to crumble. We neglect to pray, abandon the Word, and walk away from the Father who loves us dearly.

Don’t limit God to your strength, your trials, your victories, or your failures. Don’t assume that he’s only on your side during the good days. Quit listening to the Devil when he tells you that God is trying to trick you, hurt you, or keep you out of Heaven. Believe with all your heart that your God is rooting for you.

Take off the brokenness that you view God through and get to know him. Introduce yourself to his son. Grasp the fact that Christianity really is about relationships (Matthew 22:37-40), and obey his Word, not out of guilt but because of love.

Its time to rediscover your God.

Come home and don’t be surprised when he runs to meet you. My God did.

Legacy

2011-11-11T20:00:00.001-08:00

I love when people take the time to write little encouraging notes. I wish I did it more. My latest article at Forthright is about a message I recently received. A sweet friend wrote about my dad and the influence he had on her.

When I think about the 9 years I had with him, it's hard to process the fact that it was only 9 years. To a child, nine years is a long time. But as I look back today, 9 years was a blink of an eye.

What are you leaving behind? Think about it, because it matters.

Here's the link. Hope you enjoy it.

Book Review- Growing Up Church of Christ

2011-10-17T17:23:00.000-07:00

I have to admit, I was a bit apprehensive about reading and reviewing the new book Growing Up Church of Christ by Michael Allen.

My fear was that it may be a public forum to air dirty laundry on a well known family amid the churches of Christ. Jimmy Allen, as you probably already know, is an icon among some ministers in the church and father to the writer.

In fact, a few years ago when I was talking to my grandfather (himself a preacher in the churches of Christ) about a book compilation I was working on for evangelists one of the first things my grandfather said was, “You need to get Jimmy Allen to participate!”

However, my fears were put to rest as I began reading and feel rather foolish for ever thinking that in the first place.

As Mike Allen tells you at the beginning, the book is a memoir- a collection of thoughts and stories by a preacher’s kid from Searcy, Arkansas. He also allowed friends to submit their accounts on a variety of topics ranging from VBS to hot button issues such as instrumental music and the woman’s role.

Anything and everything you’ve wanted to know about the church of Christ is there in quick and easy to read blurbs. The good, the bad, and the ugly are there, also. Some may scoff at certain parts. Some should prepare to have feathers ruffled. And there will be those who find themselves feeling a bit saddened at the end.

Overall, if you “grew up church of Christ”, you’re going to be amused and find yourself having many of the same memories that Allen shares.

I laughed, cringed, and even shed a tear or two while we strolled down memory lane but thankful for a chance to peek inside another PK’s childhood.

To order the book or Kindle edition:

Amazon

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Click here to be redirected to Allen's blog.

Homestead

2011-10-09T14:17:00.000-07:00

I had a great time with the Homestead church in southern Florida this summer and so thankful that I got to ride that bus. I love those kids!

Here are a couple articles with more info regarding my time there. I'm so excited about what these Christians are doing.

Ready Set Go at Forthright

As Bus Wheels Roll at Christian Chronicle

Bible Class 101 & New Project

2011-08-08T18:15:00.000-07:00

It dawned on me the other morning while surrounded by six children dressed in their Sunday best that the major lessons of life can be learned in a children's Bible class:

Be nice and mean it.

Pray for bullies (even if you don't want to).

Clean up your messes the best you can.

Always have your Bible close.

Sometimes life stinks, hurts, and isn't fair but God will always love you no matter what.

Visitors are friends we haven't met yet. Make them feel welcome.

Be thankful to God for your family and friends but especially thank him for Jesus.

After the lesson and while the kids were coloring, I thought of Ms. Hilda, Ms. Alice, and Ms. Louise. I had several Bible class teachers when I was a child but these are the ones that come to mind when I think of that little church building in Western KY.

These made an impression and they're the ones I draw encouragement from every time I walk into my own Bible class.

I've been fortunate enough to teach ladies Bible classes but I would always rather be in a classroom full of children. Seeing what a child can understand always amazes me.

Their innocent faith and pure love for others is a lesson for all of us (Luke 16:18). You might be surprised by the questions they ask on topics such as forgiveness, salvation, and even grace. Children have a fervent desire to know about Jesus.

There's few things as rewarding albeit a bit exhausting and sometimes even nerve-wracking as sitting down with some rambunctious kids and teaching the Word of God. Seeing a child learn the love of Christ is overwhelmingly satisfying.

I challenge you; get involved in a Bible class. You have no idea how encouraging it will be and you'll be surprised at how much you will learn.

I'm working on my next book project and I need your help. I have a questionnaire for Bible class teachers (for adult & children classes) and looking for participants to offer advice, memories of their favorite teacher, humorous stories, and encouragement for and from the Bible class teacher.

If you are a Bible class teacher (or ever had one) and would like to participate, send me an email and I'll send you the questionnaire.

The link to contact me is on the profile page. Looking forward to hearing from you!

So What

2011-08-04T17:34:00.000-07:00

I was sitting beside three sweet little friends one Wednesday night as the congregation sang Jesus Loves Me. I loved hearing their voices as they went about the familiar verses.

However, the youngest, had his heart into it. He belted out the chorus with much enthusiasm.

As he got to the end, he sang boldly, "Yes, Jesus loves me. The Bible tells me so."

He held out the last word until everyone else was finished singing and then turned around and proclaimed. "So what!"

Isn't that the way we are sometimes? We know Jesus loves us. We're well aware that the Bible tells us how to live, yet our actions speak differently.

We check in with Jesus on Sundays, warm a pew, and punch the Christian time-card. But once we leave, we casually fade back into the world.

We forward malicious, gossip-filled e-mails about our leaders telling ourselves that if we don't agree with them then we have the right to slander them (I Peter 2:13ff).

We flirt more with the world than we do our spouse (I John 2:15).

We let that pesky 'live peacefully with all men' verse hinge on the color of one's skin, the money in their bank account, or the church they attend (Hebrews 12:14).

The Bible shows us the way to a greater life, a loving father, and a Heavenly future but too many times we live as though God isn't that important. Like others who have gone before us, we proclaim Jesus with our lips but our hearts are far from him (Matthew 15:8).

Sometimes we're like that cute little boy who sang, "The Bible tells me so. So what."

Spend some time with your nearest Bible. Life is about God, not us. Our focus needs to be on the cross. Live right. Stand out. Love others. Make a difference.

You have the opportunity to change the world. The Bible tells me so.

The Sermon

2011-07-24T20:06:00.000-07:00

I was cleaning out cabinets recently when I came across a shoe box full of cassette tapes. All were old sermons from some of my favorite preachers of years gone by. I couldn't wait to listen to them again.

Some of the best sermons, however, aren't captured on cassette nor will they ever be available on the Internet. They are preached by the way ordinary men and women live their lives.

One of my favorites was on perseverance and preached by a single mother who brought her young children to Bible class and then wrestled them alone in the auditorium until they grew and became faithful Christians.

Another on faith was taught by a sweet lady who went through dialysis but never complained. Instead she always had a smile and an encouraging word.

A powerful one on love and marriage was by a man who diligently cared for his sick wife. He would feed her, dress her, and then bring her with him to church.

The greatest sermons in history weren't originally declared to large crowds.

Some were broadcast from a lonely jail cell (Genesis 41), a fiery furnace (Daniel 3), a lion's den (Daniel 6) and a manger (Matthew 1, Luke 2,). Of course, the one that impacted the world more than any other was proclaimed in an empty tomb (Matthew 28, Mark 16, Luke 24, John 20).

From time to time, I'm asked my view on the woman's role in the church and whether they should be preachers or not. My answer is always the same, every Christian is a minister, but most will never stand at the front of the auditorium or behind a podium. They will quietly speak messages of love, mercy, and forgiveness in the way they treat others and handle life's situations.

They will show the world that pain and heartache don't have to define a life. They will smile or say a kind word when they could more easily walk away. They will write notes of encouragement and offer much needed hugs and in doing so will influence more people for Jesus than they will ever realize.

What are you preaching to your friends and family? Is it a sermon of love and grace? Is it one of forgiveness, compassion, and unity? Or is it something altogether different?

If you haven't started thinking about your message, today is the day. Set your mind on things above and then with a good attitude and a servant's heart, boldly live the Word of God.

Remember, you don't need a passport to be a missionary and you certainly don't need a podium to be a preacher.

Dead Ends & Detours

2011-07-21T09:07:00.000-07:00

My latest article is up at the Forthright.net

The editors have done a fantastic job of improving the look of the site. Check it out here.

Will Not Be Moved

2011-07-18T15:50:00.001-07:00

Remind Me

2011-07-04T22:31:00.000-07:00

This is getting played a lot on my iPod. One of the best songs out there.

How He Loves Us

2011-06-22T22:16:00.001-07:00

I'm not writing too much on here these days. Trying to save what I think of for a book. Whether I finish it or not is a mystery to all of us :)

I don't know if we'll ever be able to truly grasp how much we're loved but I love this song. Enjoy!

Joplin

2011-06-14T09:23:00.000-07:00

Spent four days in Joplin last week. Still can't believe the devastation. Please pray for all the places affected by the crazy weather.

Click here for the Christian Chronicle news link.

Next Book Project

2011-05-28T15:03:00.000-07:00

I'm sending out letters across the country asking for your thoughts, advice, memories, and funny stories related to the Bible Class. I know there are golden stories out there that will inspire and encourage. Please contact me if you'd like to participate.

Here's the link to the Forthright article that explains why I'm doing this and why I hope to hear from you.

Dear Graduate

2011-05-22T06:34:00.000-07:00

Spring begets a bittersweet time in many of our congregations as some of our young people will be graduating from school and starting a new chapter in their lives. Let us take a moment and focus on those who, at a tender age, are determined to live godly lives in ungodly times.

May we always show our support to them by sending encouraging notes or offering a kind word reminding them to strive to become more like Christ.

So dear graduate our prayer is that you become:

as mighty as Samson,

as faithful as David,

as dedicated as Nehemiah,

and as patient as Job.

We are certain that you can be as brave as Esther,

as passionate as Jeremiah,

and as loving as Ruth.

We hope you are as quick to care for others as Elisha,

as motivated as Noah,

and as bold as Paul.

We will pray that you become as studious as Ezra

and as encouraging to others as Barnabas.

We will encourage you to stay busy at doing good deeds like Tabitha,

are as humble as Moses,

as tender-hearted as Josiah,

and as trusting in the Lord as Abraham.

We hope that you are as understanding as the Ethiopian Eunuch,

as pure as Joseph,

and when you sin, because we all sin, we pray that you are as eager to repent as Peter.

We are so proud of your accomplishments thus far, and are excited to see what God has planned for your future and we make you this promise: we will pray for you, love you, and be here for you as you embark on a new adventure and set an example for others ( I Timothy 4:12), as you become more like Christ.

The End

2011-05-19T15:25:00.000-07:00

Some have scheduled the end of the world for Saturday, May 21st. There have been others throughout our history that knew the moment (or thought they did) that the world was going to end. However, hundreds of dates have been set, come, and gone with no sign of Christ’s returning.

I’m not sure if there is another date between May 21st and December 2012 for the end of the world but as long as humans are around, there will be some who speculate about it.

Even with all our knowledge and technology, we don’t know when the world will end. We do know a few things:

Times are bad.

People are hurting and hungry.

The institution of marriage is in danger.

Too many daddies have left and too many moms just don’t care.

The world is a dark and broken place but there is One who overcame.

There is One who loves us in spite of us.

There is One who will come again. We may not know the exact day and time and really, it doesn’t matter. What does matter is that He lives, He reigns, and He will return.

The date isn’t important, whether we’re ready or not, is.

"But concerning that day and hour no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, nor the Son, but the Father only. Matthew 24:36

Bible Class Teacher's Book

2011-05-17T12:52:00.001-07:00

I love teaching the Kindergarten and 1st Grade Bible Class. As I've said before, those kids are the cutest, sweetest, and brightest kids I've ever known (yes, I'm biased and that's ok :)

Recently, I began working on my third book & I need your help. This book will be dedicated to the Bible Class teacher.

My hope is that it will encourage others to get in a classroom and show those who are, how much they are appreciated.

We all have that special teacher. Mine was Ms. Hilda. Not only was she beautiful but she always bore a smile and a gentle tone. I'll never forget her and the influence she had on my childhood and I'll never forget those times when I got to spend the afternoon playing at her house either. She wasn't just a teacher. She brought the Bible to life, got involved in mine, and made an impact with this preacher's kid.

A few years ago, I heard a sermon about teachers and the influence they can have on their students. I went straight home and wrote a note to Ms. Hilda thanking her for her years in the classroom and the positive role she had in my life.

If you've ever been a Bible class teacher or ever had one, I need your help. I'm sending letters out across the world asking for your advice, favorite Bible class memories, and about your favorite Bible class teacher.

My goal is to compile your advice, encouragement, and humorous stories into one book for the Bible class teacher. If you're interested in participating in this project, please contact me for the questionnaire.

Thank you!

Email me

What's New?

2011-05-12T05:20:00.000-07:00

A couple notes of interest:

Jay Guin in taking a poll on your favorite blogs. Check that out by clicking here.

I'm sharing a few of the lessons I've learned as a mother at Forthright.net. Read my latest article at An Encouraging Word here.

Giving Up

2011-05-06T20:25:00.000-07:00

Many speeches, books, and sermons have been written on the importance of perseverance. Keep on, keepin’ on is a familiar adage for many of us and rightfully so. However, there are times when the most valuable move a Christian can make, is to give up.

Giving up Regret

Judas was regretful (Matthew 27). So regretful, in fact, that he took his own life. Too many times we allow regret to keep us from God. We agonize over past mistakes and let them define who we are for eternity.

Giving up Pride

The proud have no regard for God. They think that they can do all things on their own and are surprised when their world crumbles around them ( Proverbs 16:18).

Giving up Worry

Jesus tells us not to worry ( Matthew 6:25). He knew it wouldn’t make us taller, smarter, or richer. Worrying adds clouds to an otherwise sunny day.

Giving up Greed

The rich young ruler was ready to follow Christ ( Mark 10:17ff). He had kept all the commandments and done what he thought he needed to do. He was certain that he was ready but Jesus told him that there was something he had overlooked.

Giving up Selfishness

Can you imagine how different the world would be if each of us put the interest of others above our own? Can you imagine the marriages that would be saved? The pews that would be filled? The wars that would end? Paul tells us (Philippians 2:3-4) to esteem others above ourselves. Isn’t it time to put those words into practice?

Giving up Perfection

I’m tired of the perfect Christian, aren’t you? They have flawless marriages, problem free kids, and perfect lives. They have no temptations, few if any worries, and never have to deal with stress. Do you know them? I’m certain that you don’t. Not one of us is even in the vicinity of perfection yet we sometimes let it or the pursuit of it become one of our greatest enemies.

Sometimes we’re not strong enough to give up. Our fleshly nature grasps what is familiar and sadly, we’re more comfortable with regret, pride, worry, greed, selfishness, and the pursuit of perfection.

Our world promotes giving in to our wants. It stresses that life is all about us. If only we can focus on ourselves and our problems then we’ll stay blinded to the love and peace of our Heavenly Father.

It’s time to stop giving in to what’s keeping you from Jesus. Let go of your troubles and give them to God. You won’t be strong enough to do it on your own and thankfully you won't have to.

2011-04-30T15:01:00.001-07:00

Church isn’t a fancy building. It doesn’t have pews, nice carpet, or a sign out front. Church is a family. It’s a group of people with a lot of problems & many imperfections. Brothers & sisters who were once strangers but now have a common hope, peace, and love. They may not have all the answers but they know, without a shadow of a doubt, that there is a better way and a better place.

Church

2011-04-29T04:11:00.001-07:00

When I was a kid, I always thought that “church” was just another place I had to go. Most times, I could manage to get through without falling asleep but I was always anticipating the invitation song. I could even tell when the preacher was winding down, which to me, meant that it was time to grab the nearest song book.

As a teen, I would get to the building (if I even went) late and leave as soon as I could. As long as I punched that Christian time card, the rest of the day and week belonged to me.

There was a long time in my life when I just didn’t get it.

Those moments came rushing back recently when I saw this quote:

“Individual commitment to a group effort -- that is what makes a team work, a company work, a society work, and a civilization work.”

Vince Lombardi had it right but he left out something. It’s what makes a church work as well.

Everyone in the congregation knowing that church isn’t just another place to be in our already overscheduled hectic life. Church is family. It’s a group of strangers who have been connected through the blood of Christ using their different gifts for the glory of God. That’s what makes a healthy congregation and, in turn, that’s what makes a change in a neighborhood, a town, and a world.

There are still those who compartmentalize their Christianity into a day a week tradition. Some still lay the responsibility of proclaiming the Good News solely on the shoulders of the preacher. Some still think that the youth minister is responsible for getting the kids to Heaven.

Some still think that church is a building with a sign out front. Another place to go, bide time, and anticipate the invitation song.

But what if we truly believed that the church in our area would cease to survive if we, individually, failed to attend services?

What if every Christian ministered to each other and to our neighbors?

What if there was a waiting list for folks who wanted to teach a Bible class?

What if every Christian visited the sick, encouraged the teens, and sang with all their heart?

What if every Christian lived, thought, and loved differently than the world?

What if each of us made these declarations:

I will live for Christ.
I will love like Christ.
I will teach for Christ.
I will strive for Christ.
I will forgive like Christ.
I will endure because one day I will stand before Christ.

Can you imagine what could be done for the glory of God if we made that vow every morning before our feet even touched the floor?

We could change the world. It’s been done before (Acts 17:6).

We are the church. You and I make up the greatest family that has ever been assembled. Yes, we have our problems and faults. Yes, we may not agree on everything but even so, we’ve been told that we’re wanted and worthy.

We belong to Jesus. He tells us that we’re worth it and whether we understand it or not, we’re dearly loved.

Let’s get serious. It’s time to focus on our Savior and change this world one precious soul at a time, starting with yours and mine.

Before the Morning

2011-04-23T09:50:00.001-07:00

Today is the day that sits idly between the darkest day in history and the brightest day known to man.

The disciples thought they had life figured out. Jesus was going to change the world.

He had turned the water into wine, healed the sick, calmed the storm, and brought the dead to life. Now he was dead. Gone. What hope they had, had begun to waver.

Just listen to the guys on the road to Emmaus, "But we were hoping that it was He who was going to redeem Israel..." (Luke 24:21)

He was going to. Now what?

Life wasn't going the way they thought it would or should. Been there? I have.

Hopeless, frustrated, disappointed, not sure which way to go and wondering where God is. You thought you knew how it was all going to turn out but now, once again, you're clueless.

How many times have you been there only to see God step in and save the day? He always will, you know. He is trustworthy. He never fails but sometimes while He's working we allow our faith to dwindle and life to get very dark before the morning.

Seven Little Words

2011-04-13T16:20:00.001-07:00

I've been studying the book of Acts with our youngest for the upcoming Bible Bowl and came to my brand new favorite verse.

Sure, I've read it before but it never stuck out like it did last night. Everything I've ever done, every decision I've ever made, anywhere I'll ever go, or anything I'll ever do will never compare to the seven little words in Acts 13:30.

That short sentence took a cruel world full of imperfect people and gave it hope. It offered a bright light in a dark place. Those words spell out LOVE on a scale so grand, it could never be measured.

They trump any diagnosis.

They promise the wounded that they will be healed.

They tell the lonely that they are never alone.

They offer peace and comfort in the midst of violence and heartache.

Seven little words changed a world. Seven little words can change you.

"But God raised Him from the dead."

It doesn't get any better than this. Don't miss out.

The Preacher's Wife & iPreach

2011-04-08T15:23:00.001-07:00

I had the opportunity to be on Dale Jenkin's and Adam Faughn's popular podcast, iPreach, recently with a forum of ladies who participated in my book, A Sunday Afternoon with the Preachers' Wives.

If you're a preacher's wife, know one, or love one, then I invite you to visit The Equip Network and listen to the April 8th podcast.

For information on ordering the book for preachers' wives, please click here.

For the Gosch Family

2011-04-01T16:50:00.001-07:00

I was in shock when my mom died. I remember being in the hotel and hearing a party down the hallway. It was December 31st and most people were getting ready to ring in a New Year. I was getting ready to bury my mother.

One thing that bothered me the most was that while I was grieving, the world went on with its business. People still laughed, parties were still thrown, time didn't stop for the entire world like I thought it should. Thankfully, church members across the country stepped in and helped ease a difficult situation.

A friend sent a note and asked me to share this news link with my readers.

I had seen the article title on-line but hadn't taken the time to look at it until now. Having five kids of my own, I knew it would be a tough read.

However, it does need your attention and it needs action on the part of God's family.

Please take a few minutes to read about the Gosch family and I urge you to please send a prayer up for them and few bucks along their way.

Life will go on but maybe, somehow we can help make it a bit more bearable.

To read the Christian Chronicle article, please click here.

VBS

2011-03-29T14:49:00.000-07:00

My new blog is centered around VBS. Info regarding my new venture, Project: VBS, plus ways you can contribute to Bible classes across the country.

Share your ideas, donate old material, or throw a VBS in your community. Stop in and get involved.

Visit Project: VBS here

Blessings in Disguise

2011-03-24T04:53:00.000-07:00

I was talking to friends recently about this topic and one mentioned this song. I hadn't heard it at the time.

Are you thankful for the tears? The pain, trials, and heartaches of this life? I'll admit, I wish I were more than I am.

I know that I wouldn't be who I am now if I didn't struggle with temptations or my own selfish attitude on a daily basis.

I don't know where I would be right now if my parents had both lived and been strong, faithful Christians. Or those old loves would've always worked out.

I don't know who I would be right now if the prayers I fervently prayed (and pray) were always answered with a "yes" instead of a "no".

I don't know a lot of things but I appreciate the raindrops, the tears, and the thousand sleepless nights. I'm thankful for the nights I stared out the window and asked God, "Now what do I do?" Only because those trying times brought me closer to Jesus.

What if blessings come through raindrops?
What if healing comes through tears?
What if a thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know He's near?
What if trials of this life are His mercies in disguise?

What if?

Victory in Jesus

2011-03-23T04:35:00.001-07:00

I passed my youngest child’s room recently when I heard one of my favorite songs. As she gathered her notebooks and paper, my sweet ten-year old sang, “I heard an old, old story how a Savior came from glory.”

I stopped and listened and as she continued to sing, it dawned on me that just the fact that she knew the words to that song was in and of itself a victory.

Though we have obtained the greatest victory through Jesus ( I Corinthians 15:57), smaller triumphs make up our days. It happens when we ignore the way we want to react to life’s situations and imitate our Savior instead ( I Corinthians 11:1).

It includes forgiving, listening, and going that extra mile ( Matthew 5:41). It’s hugging the lonely and feeding the hungry. It occurs when we find a need and to the glory of God become determined to fill it.

Victories are achieved when we get out of our comfort zone to tell someone else what Christ has done for us and what he will do for them.

It’s not just warming a pew a couple of times a week. It’s not just reading our Bible every morning. It’s not just praying before meals. It’s getting out, getting busy, and changing someone’s world because of our love for Jesus.

It’s time consuming and it may even be exhausting. It might make you cry and it most certainly will change your life.

As I listened to my youngest child sing “Victory in Jesus,” I realized that some victories don’t make the headlines or rounds at the local water-cooler and to the world they may not seem like anything at all.

Life’s best victories may be a kind word or good deed that only a few eyes ever see. But those victories, the ones that show others Jesus, are the ones that make the greatest impact. Those are the ones that have the power to change a heart, a town, a nation, and a world.

God will always supply the opportunities to make a difference. May we always be ready to be victorious

The Book Blog Tour

2011-03-16T16:07:00.001-07:00

Thanks to those participating in the book blog tour for A Common Bond.

Richard Mansel wrote the first review on Amazon.

Tim Archer

Tim Pyles

Matthew Morine

Jeff Jenkins

Dale Jenkins

Adam Faughn

Playing Church

2011-03-12T06:30:00.000-08:00

If you’ve read much of what I write then you know that I absolutely adore the Kindergarten Bible Class. Those kids are the sweetest, most intelligent children I’ve ever met (I might be a bit biased… but just a bit).

Last Sunday morning they came in dressed to the tee and quickly realized that something about class was different.

I had covered our rug with a purple blanket. Only purple crayons, purple colored pencils, and purple markers covered the table. A huge box of stickers was placed neatly on the table with instructions to only use the ones that were purple.

They soon learned that our lesson was centered on that faithful, influential Christian lady, Lydia.

Class went great but it was at the end when one of my girls came up to me and remarked, “I play Bible class at home and you are the Princess.” I wasn’t sure what she meant but later her mom explained.

At home, this sweet little girl lines up her dolls and stuffed animals and plays church. I am the teacher and I am Princess Peach. (I had no idea who Princess Peach was but Googled her when I got home). I was so excited that this little girl enjoys Bible class so much that she plays it at home.

I remember when my kids were little and would play church. One time they insisted that my husband and I dress for the occasion. It was close to 9pm when we sat on the couch and they took turns leading the singing, preaching and praying. I will never forget the importance on their little faces. This wasn’t just play, to them it was serious.

Like children, many adults still enjoy playing church. They control what songs are led, what is preached (or isn’t preached), what ministries are instituted, and sadly, the only version of the Bible they’re happy with is their own personnel understanding. Everything else is labeled as false doctrine.

There are others who check in on Sundays and then check out the rest of the week.

However, most of us know that Church isn’t what we do nor is it where we go. Church is who we are so don't be afraid to be the hands, feet, and words of Jesus. He is the only way.

Sermons

2011-03-08T05:10:00.000-08:00

I'm working on a new article for Forthright about my favorite sermons and wrote a little about it at the Fellowship Room. If you have the chance, I invite you to stop by and share thoughts on the sermon that has most impacted you.

Click here to go to the Fellowship Room.

Thanks to those participating in the book blog tour for A Common Bond.

Jeff Jenkins shares his thoughts on the book here.

Thanks to Dale Jenkins for his review. You can read it and learn how you can buy Dale's book, A Minister's Heart here. I highly recommend reading his book. You'll be blessed.

Also, thanks to Adam Faughn for his review. Like Dale and Jeff, Adam maintains a great blog. Click to visit the The Faughn Family of Four.

It's Here!

2011-02-23T15:59:00.001-08:00

Click here to buy A Common Bond on-line.

Ministers from around the country answer your questions, give practical suggestions, share funny stories, and offer guidance and tips on living as a gospel preacher. From their first sermon to their thoughts on how the world has changed since they began preaching, you’ll be encouraged and uplifted by spending some time with these men of the Word.

* Find out what they think is the most important piece of advice for a new preacher.

* See what they wished they had known before they began preaching.

* Learn how years of preaching influenced their families.

* Laugh at mishaps during weddings, funerals, and mission trips.

* Gain knowledge on studying the Bible and preparing and delivering sermons.

* Allow their words to encourage your walk with Christ.

News and Notes

2011-02-22T05:21:00.000-08:00

Exciting news around my neck of the woods as a new (and only) soup kitchen is in the works. Please keep the venture and those behind this work in your prayers.

A local congregation has began a new ministry aimed at teens. Their website and the article they asked me to write are here.

I love writing about the Kindergarten Bible class. They never cease to offer illustrations for life. Read First things First by clicking here.

Lord willing, my next book A Common Bond will be released soon. See more info on that here.

By Our Love

2011-02-09T07:07:00.000-08:00

Recently, after having dinner with friends, the waitress asked if there was anything else she could do for us. There wasn’t, but one of the people in our group surprised us all when he asked, if there was anything we could do for her.

She thought for a moment and then casually replied, “I guess you can pray for me.” What happened next will never be forgotten.

We joined hands and asked what she wanted us to pray about. It was then that her emotions took over. Through her tears, she mentioned her family and the many struggles they were facing. There wasn’t a dry eye in the room after that prayer.

Jesus tells us that we will be known by our love ( John 13:34-35). It won’t be what kind of car we drive, how well our children are dressed, or where we work. It won’t be our political affiliation or views on worldly matters that will show others that we belong to him.

The number of friends we have on Facebook, how many people follow us on Twitter, or how popular our blog is, won’t make us stand out in a crowd either. Neither will what version of the Bible we use, what brotherhood lectureship we attend, or which Christian college we happen to support.

The only way that the world will know who we belong to is how well we treated them. Were we nice to the waitress? Did we spend time with the sick, lonely, and abandoned?

Did we have a genuine love and concern for the addicted, abused, and mentally ill? Did we serve others joyfully? What did we do and, more importantly, how did we do it?

We can be in the church building every time the doors are open, but if we’re rude, arrogant, or hateful in the world, then we may as well be sleeping in on Sunday mornings.

Lord, help us to be like Christ because the world is watching.

Refuse

2011-02-07T16:27:00.000-08:00

Refuse to be like everyone else. Reject the norm. Make a difference.

It starts with me and you. Are you in?

Hold Fast

2011-01-31T04:57:00.000-08:00

The world offers pain, heartache, betrayal, violence, and a promise of abandonment.

Christ offers love, acceptance, mercy, forgiveness, truth, and a promise of an eternal home.

We know what's offered. We know what's to gain so why do we so willingly chose the world time and time again?

Don't worry about yesterday. It's gone. Don't stress about tomorrow. It may never come.

Today, hold fast to Jesus.

Go Ye?

2011-01-26T13:18:00.001-08:00

I was talking to someone I love and greatly respect about taking Jesus into our community and getting involved in other’s lives when he told me about a meeting he had sat in on several years ago. This classroom was being used for those in the congregation to have “business meetings” and one man had the desire to start a soup kitchen in their metropolitan city.

He explained that he wanted to use the church’s fellowship building to invite the homeless and hungry to come and eat. He wanted the people, the Christians, to come and serve these less fortunate. He wanted to build relationships with those struggling in this world. He wanted to help. He wanted to love. He wanted to show others Jesus.

The room got quiet as the others processed what they had heard. Then one man in the back spoke up, “Son, that’s a nice idea but it’s not going to happen. You preach the gospel every Sunday. We come and hear you. Our doors are always open to those outside of this church. These people can come to any service any time they want. The times are publicized on the TV, in the newspaper, and in our weekly bulletin. That’s up to them. If they don’t want to come here and hear what you have to say, then that’s their choice to die and go to Hell.”

When I heard this story, I wanted to cry. The attitude of some is to sit back and let others come to us. But wasn’t it Jesus who said, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation. Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned.” (Mark 16:15-16).

When did we stop “going into the world” and start expecting the world to “come unto us”? Or did this never click with some?

Sadly, these attitudes (that I feel are the minority in the Kingdom) hurt the church and the cause of Christ worse than anything else.

In Better Hands Now

2011-01-19T04:42:00.000-08:00

Finally Home

2011-01-16T14:30:00.000-08:00

I don't know why she did it but there was a time when our youngest would get mad at me or my husband and with great exasperation would announce, "I want to go home!"

While she went through the terrible twos and the much terribler (is that a word ;) threes, this saying would be proclaimed several times throughout one day.

Apparently, she thought she belonged somewhere else or with a set of parents who would bow to her every whim. Bless her heart.

She eventually realized that she was home and this is where God wanted her to be but her saying has stuck around. Sometimes when my husband or I get aggravated or frustrated with life, we'll grin at each other and say, "I want to go home."

This song is all about the home we're looking forward to and one of my absolute favorites. Hope you like it and if I don't get to see you on this side of Heaven, I look forward to seeing you when we all get home.

The Evil Truth

2011-01-13T05:35:00.000-08:00

Click here to read my thoughts on the Tucson shooting. Choosing Jesus means picking a fight with the Devil but don't be afraid. God is on our side (Romans 8:31).

Kids Say the Greatest Things

2011-01-06T04:32:00.000-08:00

I was heading toward the lobby on my way out of the building Wednesday night when I walked past one of my Sunday morning Kindergarten Bible class kids. With a wide smile, she talked to the preacher. He was bent over and listening intently so, curiously, I drew closer.

I couldn’t help grinning as I heard her recite the books of the Bible. She made it through the Old Testament and once she hit the New Testament, it was a breeze.

I’ll admit that I’ve only been able to recite the OT for, maybe the past 6 years. The New Testament was always easy since it was set to a song but I’d never heard the OT in a tune until about 6 years ago. So, with open Bibles and willing minds, my class and I set out to learn the entire books of the Bible.

We did and with each year and group of kindergarteners that came, we continued to study them.

I am so proud of these 5 and 6 year olds for being able to recite the entire books of the Bible. Many adults can't even do that!

Here are a couple of other kids (not mine) who do a great job of telling what they’ve learned about the Bible.

Take this as proof that your kids can understand Scripture. They just have to hear it first so get busy and have fun.

There is nothing more rewarding than teaching the Word of God to children.

Have a great week!

Today

2010-12-30T08:38:00.000-08:00

I'm not one for New Year's resolutions. In fact, I do good to get through one day at a time. My recent article at Forthright explains why December 30th is so important to me and how this day should get us one day closer to Jesus.

Check it out by clicking here.

The Most Played List 2010

2010-12-29T11:54:00.000-08:00

I love music so it's usually playing around the house or in the car. I love the way a song can make me forget about the stress of a day and focus in on what's important in life.

I keep coming back to this song. It's always exactly what I need to hear.

Try hearing this being sang by 400+ young people! Absolutely beautiful!

So, these are my top song picks for 2010 (I know that some of these were released prior to 2010, however, they only made my iTunes list this year so that counts ;)

What are some of your favs?

A Common Bond

2010-12-25T15:53:00.000-08:00

Finishing this today was my Christmas present to myself. The cover is ready, the description set, and Lord willing, in 2011, this book will finally be available.

Here's a sneak preview of the cover and a very big thank you to Jeremy Pate for the design. Didn't he do a great job!

A Common Bond

Ministers from around the country answer your questions, give practical suggestions, share funny stories, and offer guidance and tips on living as a gospel preacher. From their first sermon to their thoughts on how the world has changed since they began preaching, you’ll be encouraged and uplifted by spending some time with these men of the Word.

A Blue Christmas

2010-12-21T12:24:00.000-08:00

This time of year sparks great memories, fun, and fellowship but for millions of people, it also leads to depression.

Many people are wading through their first holiday season grief-stricken. The death of a loved one, the loss of a marriage, or even a job leaves many searching for joy.

For some, this will be the first Christmas without a certain family member. An empty chair, bedroom, or even gifts without that familiar name will be a reminder of who isn’t there this year. A hard pill to swallow and those of us who know how difficult this first Christmas is, will be keeping you in our prayers.

For many, the holidays are tumultuous due to divorce and not being able to spend time with children or grandchildren. Many are enforcing custodial rights and battling exes. Some are using their children as pawns, not even realizing that it’s the kids who will suffer the most.

For adult children of divorce, the stress of making sure all sides of the family are visited can lead to dread and exhaustion.

Sure, the holidays are a time of joy, but for many, they are a time of great heartache. Memories that should carry happiness leave tender hearts sore and bruised.

Many will even be alone.

Sometimes it feels like we’re standing on the shore of a raging sea. And like the old children’s adage, we can’t go back, we can’t go around, and we can’t go over. We can only go through. The waters are going to rise. They’re going to be tough. They’re going to hurt but you don’t have to go through them alone.

If you’re going through a trying time, focus your thoughts on Jesus. Give Him your broken hearts and allow His comfort to bring you peace. He'll get you through this. It won't be easy but it is possible.

I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength. Philippians 4:13

Does God Want You to be Happy?

2010-12-03T15:53:00.000-08:00

I explore that question in my latest article at Forthright. Please visit my column An Encouraging Word and let me know what you think.

In other news, click here to see how you can help the kids at the Manuelito Children's Home.

Have a great weekend!

Come Home

2010-11-30T18:19:00.000-08:00

I was going to write about this crazy life, however this song sums up everything I wanted to say.

My favorite line is, "Your Father's screaming, 'Just Come Home!"

Enjoy :)

Tis the Season

2010-11-24T11:23:00.001-08:00

I received the Christmas wish list for several of the kids at the Manuelito Navajo Children's Home and was going to post it here. However, instead of posting the entire list, I think it would be simpler if we inundated the home with Wal-Mart gift cards.

Will you join me in helping support this wonderful mission and surprising the kids this Christmas?

Please consider donating via a Wal-Mart gift card or check to:

Manuelito Navajo Children's Home
PO BOX 58
Gallup, New Mexico, 87305-0058

(The MNCH is under the direction of the Gallup Church of Christ.)

Day after Day

2010-11-17T19:04:00.000-08:00

There are some things in life that are predictable.

I can pretty much guarantee that tomorrow my youngest child is going to fuss about the clothes that she picks out (Note: she picks out her own clothes and still gripes about having to wear them), one of my kids is going to need a ride somewhere, one of them will most definitely ask me for money, something at work is going to make me laugh or cry, and the dog will annoy me. Most of life is predictable and I need to remember to be thankful for that.

Take comfort in knowing that God is predictable. He never disappoints. He's always there loving us, guiding us, forgiving us, reassuring us, and promising us the hope that one day we'll get to go home.

Enjoy this song. It's my new favorite.

Blind-Sided

2010-11-10T05:17:00.001-08:00

Peter had been blind-sided. One moment he was in the calm and quiet garden with Jesus. The next he stood in a chaotic courtyard at the door of the high priest ( John 18:16).

By the warmth of the fire, he must have wondered where God was. Why wasn't he intervening? Didn't he care that his son was facing an interrogation by an angry mob? Why didn't he do something? Overwhelmed by fear, confusion, and disappointment, Peter's faith wavered and he caved to a grueling situation.

I've been there. Haven't you? Surprised by a revelation, diagnosis, or a death we find ourselves doubting God's love. Swept away by worry, we too may even deny Christ, if not by words, then by our thoughts or actions.

Fortunately, we get to choose how those moments will affect us. We can allow the pain and regret to destroy our faith and keep us from a mission much greater than our troubles or we can go back and cling to the only one who can provide comfort and stability. Peter chose Jesus.

Ten plus years after that terrible night, we find Peter standing at a different door ( Acts 12:16). A few minutes earlier he had been sitting in prison, perhaps thinking of his impending death. Now he stood in front of the home of John Mark's mother, where many of the believers had gathered. This time, he was overwhelmed but it wasn't with fear or disbelief. Peter stood and knocked at the door full of zeal, faith, and evangelism.

How did he get there? Let's look at what happened to him over the past ten years.

After his fall, he went back to Jesus. He faced his shame and found forgiveness (John 21). He surrounded himself with God's people. He reminded himself of Christ's sacrifice. He devoted himself to prayer and Scripture. He proclaimed the good news. He didn't give up!

Life is full of hard times, that if given the opportunity can rock our foundation and bring us to our knees, but we must remember that even when our days are full of sorrow, we don't have to be.

Don't allow your struggles to define your future. Show others that you have found your peace in the one who gave his life for you. And when you're facing doubt or heartache, take advice from someone who's been there:

"Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings. And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast" (1 Peter 5:7-10 NIV).

Beautiful

2010-11-04T04:07:00.001-07:00

I was reading the Profile page on Facebook recently when I ran across the news of a Disney channel celebrity who has recently entered rehab. It seems this young star has been battling an eating disorder and cutting herself.

There was a comment on the thread that was disturbing. A teen remarked that she couldn't understand how this star could go through something like that, especially considering how beautiful she was.

Society has told us that we must be beautiful and if we are then life will be perfect. No problems, no worries, no needs, but the truth is, we are only beautiful in the eyes of Jesus. Without Him, we are as ugly as the sins we commit.

Don't be fooled by the lies of this world. Find your purpose, find your beauty, find your future in Christ.

Anything Like Me?

2010-11-02T08:54:00.001-07:00

There’s a new song on country music radio about a father talking about his unborn son. The chorus has the words, “If he’s anything like me,” and then goes into the similarities that the two will probably have in common. Every time I hear it, I think about my heavenly Father.

I’m grateful that he isn’t anything like me. Yes, of course, I’m made in his image ( Genesis 1:26), but that’s where the resemblance ends.

When things don’t go my way, I tend to get frustrated. When I trust someone and they let me down, it’s difficult for me to trust them again. I expect people to do what they say and when they don’t, I’ve been known to lose my temper.

I let the troubles of this life get me down. I squander too much time worrying about what others do or don’t do and waste energy on things that don’t matter. I don’t spend enough time with the Scriptures. My prayer life isn’t near what it could be.

I wish I gave more of my means and took bigger leaps of faith. I tire of people who claim Jesus, but don’t want to live like him or love like him.

I have to make an honest effort to be nice to some people.

In my haste to get from day to day, there are times when I miss out on helping others and fail to further the Kingdom. There are moments when my light is so enveloped with worry that it fails to shine.

It’s not always easy for me to love, forgive, serve, trust, and go that extra mile. I get run down, fed up, and overwhelmed.

But not my God.

He offers salvation to everyone. He’s always willing to forgive. He’s good, patient, trustworthy, loving, and in control. He’s caring and committed. Always.

He never tires. He won’t forsake. He’s eager to listen, inspire, comfort, and encourage 24/7. He’s fair, whether I always understand him or not.

I’m thankful that my Father isn’t anything like me and even more grateful that he loves me anyway.

God is Faithful!

2010-10-22T05:13:00.001-07:00

The check has been mailed.

Thanks to everyone who prayed for this cause but thanks to God especially for seeing this through. It was God that worked this out and I'm grateful that He is so loving, caring, & trustworthy.

I have a new article at Encouraging Word all about our God. Check out Anything Like Me and let me know what you think.

Have a great day!

A Wild Ride

2010-10-17T18:44:00.001-07:00

We've bought a bus for $6,000.

Not sure if we've secured all the funds yet, however, we're pressing on and leaving that part up to God.

It took 2 and a half days to raise $3,500 and wish we could've gotten a good bus (with AC) at auction for that amount. However, I'm sure the other will come in from somewhere. If you'd like to contribute please send all donations to:

Calvert City Church of Christ
ATTN: Paula Harrington
(Please specify money is for the Homestead bus)
PO Box 466
Calvert City, KY 42029

Thank you so much for the prayers for this cause!

My Own Little World

2010-10-08T15:30:00.000-07:00

I have a problem staying plugged-in. My mind races. I'm always thinking about what needs to be done or how I could've done or said something differently. I mentally work on my own writing. I get to one room and forget why I'm there and spend too much time back-tracking.

My own little world can be stressful at times but all in all, it's easy. My kids are fed, clothed, and taken care of. My bills are paid (barely). We have enough to eat. We are richer than 75% of the world. We have more than we can even use. We are blessed.

But I need to get out of my world and work for Jesus in the world of others. How about you?

Love This Song!

2010-10-07T04:53:00.001-07:00

Heard this song on K-Love and LOVE it! Click here to listen.

News and Notes

2010-09-23T17:27:00.000-07:00

A new article (and one of my favorites) is at Forthright.

Click here to be directed to An Elementary Attitude.

A word from Roy Merritt:

We have six babies who need sponsors.

We request that you make a two-year commitment of $75 a month.

Please make your gift out to College Church of Christ and send it to:

Wanda Spears,
1207 Pioneer Road,
Searcy, AR 72143

Please let us know if you want to sponsor a child, and please write the baby’s name on your check so we know who it’s for.

Roy and Kathi

Esther Likwakala

Esther was born August 14, 2010. The mother was really sick, and so Esther may have been exposed to HIV.

Janice Moono

Janice was born August 29, 2010. Her mother is still alive, but deathly ill. Both the mother and the father are HIV positive. Janice also has Downs Syndrome.

Jessica Siamuuyi

Jessica’s birthday is September 11, 2010. Both parents are HIV positive. Jessica was given antiretroviral medicines for a week after birth, hoping to block the virus.

Quintyn Simweemba

Quintyn was born on the 31st of August, 2010. He and Tanner are twins. Their mother died after the twins were delivered by C-section. As far as we know there is no history of HIV or TB.

Tanner Simweemba

Tanner is Quintyn’s twin.

Sibajene Kaliba

Sibajene was born September 2nd this year. As far as we know there is no history of HIV or TB, but he does have a problem with his eyes.

United

2010-09-14T04:55:00.000-07:00

When I think of examples of unity in the Bible, a few names quickly come to mind.

Mary and Martha were friends of Jesus and there are times when I feel as Martha did in Luke 10:38 ff. She wanted everything to be perfect and felt it was her duty to see that it was. However, she quickly lost herself in the details of the day and let what someone else was doing (or not doing) blind her from where she needed to be.

As she hurried around the house making preparations her sister, Mary, sat at the feet of the Messiah. In Martha’s eyes, her sister didn’t care as much as she did. She wasn’t interested in the day’s event. She had become indifferent to what was going on around her. Surely, the Lord would see it her way but leave it to the Son of God to straighten out this devout woman’s near-sightedness (Luke 10:41-42).

Unity begins when we stop seeing others through our own eyes and start seeing them through the eyes of Jesus. However, it’s easy to jump to conclusions and common to get caught up in the here and now. May we never become so focused on another’s shortcomings (or what we perceive them to be) that we lose sight of our goal.

Another one of my favorite examples of unity (or the lack thereof) is found in Philippians 4. Euodia and Syntyche were church going Christian women who had been helping the Apostle Paul spread the Gospel. They could have been the potluck organizers, shower decorators, and enthusiastic Bible class teachers. They could’ve been converting the masses or the best writers or teachers in the country but the Lord didn’t want us to know about all the good they had accomplished. He wanted their names remembered for another reason.

Scripture doesn’t give many details regarding what these women were doing but we do know what they weren’t doing. They weren’t getting along. They weren’t loving each other the way God intended. They weren’t encouraging their brothers and sisters in the faith. They weren’t being Christ-like. They certainly weren’t united.

Christians, it’s time to make amends and heal wounds. We need to move forward and spread the Kingdom outward. There are apologies that need to be offered and apologies that need to be accepted. We have a duty to save those perishing in this world but how will we ever complete our mission if we can’t even get along with one another? Remember, the enemy revels in our strife and division.

Let’s meet at the feet of Jesus. In a world marred by sin and heartache, that’s the only place where peace will reign, hearts will be healed, and lives will be changed.

Unity matters and it starts with a loving attitude, a forgiving nature, and a heart for Jesus.

We Need a Bus

2010-09-10T21:00:00.000-07:00

Up until this quarter, I taught the Wednesday night Bible class for several years. I am currently teaching Sunday morning and have to say that being in a classroom with children and seeing them learn the Word of God is one of the greatest, most rewarding experiences in my life. So when I heard about the following need, it caught my heart. The thought of kids wanting to attend Wednesday night class and not being able to is a problem that we have the power to fix. Please pray for this situation and help us find that bus.

Thank you.

A ministry in Miami is searching for a bus in hopes that more children can be transported to the Homestead Church of Christ to learn about Jesus.

Mike Hoots of the Jesus 4 Life ministry (J4L) says that around 100 people from ages 13 to 28 are affiliated with J4L including several AIM students (Adventures in Missions).

What started as a VBS on Wheels program that goes into neighborhoods and presents Bible lessons, songs, games and prayers has grown to numerous children wanting to attend Wednesday night Bible classes at the Homestead Church of Christ.

J4L currently transports children 4 to 13 years old from the VBS ministry via two church vans and several cars but always has to leave children behind due to not having enough room in the vehicles.

If your congregation would be willing to donate a church bus or help the ministry purchase a new or used bus, please contact Mike Hoots at mikehoots@msn.com or at (305) 804-6168.

So What.

2010-09-09T05:06:00.000-07:00

I let a 3 yr-old help write my latest article at Forthright. It should be here later today.

What I Love About the Church of Christ

2010-09-06T17:39:00.000-07:00

You know those people who would do anything in the world for you?

The ones who:

-would be there in the middle of the night.

-pray with you and for you.

-are faithful in the midst of great tragedy or disappointment.

-encourage you to never give up, never give in, and never back down.

-are eager to spend eternity in Heaven with you.

We had a name for them when I was growing up. They were called Church People and it was never a derogatory label. Being the preacher’s kid and grandkid had many advantages. One was that almost every Sunday, I got to spend the afternoon with another family within the congregation. Some of my fondest childhood memories are at the homes of these amazing church people.

There are names and faces etched in my mind that will never be forgotten. Small deeds or grand jesters have made me the person I am today. Little churches, huge congregations, and even those I’ve only met through the Internet have made their mark on my soul and I’m thankful for them and their influence on my life.

What do I love about the church? I love the people. I love those who aren’t afraid to shout from the rooftops that Jesus is Lord. I love those who are meek and quiet and with a gentle touch or understanding nod encourage me to press on. I love those who know that God’s people can have fun and a good time without resorting to worldly things.

I love those who strive for peace and unity and would never do anything to cause division or strife. I love those who work a 50+ hour schedule then humbly smile when a church member teases them about a preacher’s two day work week.

I love those who shepherd the flock, feed the hungry, visit the sick, volunteer at camp, go on mission trips, pinch pennies to send their kids to Christian colleges, give devotionals to the teens, and stay up all night at lock-ins. I love those that vacuum the auditorium, dust the classrooms, and straighten the song books.

I love those that send cards, type up the bulletin, assemble the Lord’s Supper, drive the bus, and those that, even though their bodies are weak and frail, would never miss a chance to worship with the saints.

I love those who know that Christianity is so much more than just warming a pew a couple of times a week.

I love that we have a common bond and no matter where I travel or where this life leads me, there are church people everywhere who, regardless of what troubles they face, don’t give up or give in to worldly problems or heartaches.

I love the people because in their eyes and actions, I can see Jesus.

Aren’t you glad that Heaven will be full of church people? I am and I’m looking forward to that great reunion. There are so many precious souls that I’m eager to see again.

What do you love about the church? If it’s someone who’s made an impression on your life, then let them know. Write them a card, send an e-mail, or pick up the phone. It only takes a minute to offer encouragement that will last an eternity.

Where Were You?

2010-08-28T12:00:00.000-07:00

I cut the following out of my latest article at Forthright and decided to use it here. That terrible morning comes to mind every December or everytime someone mentions their highschool.

Where Where You?

I was getting ready for work the morning of December 1st, 1997 when I heard the DJ say that there had been a shooting at Heath High School. I’ll never forget how his voice cracked when he mentioned the word 'causalities' or the chill that rose up my spine. Nor will I forget the long drive to work on the same road that passed the school. I had graduated from there years before and still had friends (students and teachers) that attended. I remember praying intensely for them hoping and pleading for this to be a terrible dream.

As I drove, I passed a man changing the sign in front of his business. He wiped his eyes as he walked away from the marquee that held the words, ‘Pray for our children’. I continued to pray as the tears began to flow.

Click here for the link to the article Where Were You?

What's Going On

2010-08-12T15:08:00.000-07:00

I'm not good with plants. In fact, my husband and I weren't married three months before I had killed every one of his houseplants. It's not that I don't try, it's just that I don't have whatever it is to keep them alive (which is probably a strong commitment to keep them alive ;). However, the cactus is immune to my less than green thumb. It continues to thrive and is the topic of my latest article at Forthright. You can read it by clicking here.

Also, for you unity buffs... Bobby Cohoon asked me to participate in his unity series. You can read my article, Reunited, by clicking here.

Chris Gallagher of the Preacher's Pen site asked me to write on what I loved about the church. It wasn't hard to come up with the answer. That article is here: What I Love About the Church

Guest Writing

2010-08-02T20:35:00.000-07:00

I was asked to be a guest writer at two different places in the month of August and hope you'll stop by and read the articles offered by me and several other writers.

First, I'll have an article on unity for Bobby Cohoon at his blog Here in the Real World.

The next day, an article on what I love about the church will be featured over at Chris Gallagher's site The Preacher's Pen.

I'll include the link when they go live. Please stop by these blogs and read the articles on two great topics.

Thanks and have a great day!

Preacher's Wives

2010-07-28T13:48:00.001-07:00

A Sunday Afternoon with the Preachers' Wives has been out of print for the past eighteen months. However, it is now available on-line.

Please click on this link for ordering information.

By Your Side

2010-07-28T10:08:00.000-07:00

Every now and then I hear a song that makes me stop what I'm doing and pay close attention. Then I usually look it up and listen to it a few more times.

This is one of those songs. Hope you enjoy it.

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Homesick

2010-07-24T14:48:00.000-07:00

I write this on the eve of another funeral this summer. It doesn’t matter how many I attend (and I’ve been to a lot this year) they never get any easier. Good friends, old and young, have passed on and left grieving family members. I know that pain too well and even though I try, I can never stop the tears when I see someone else having to endure it.

Besides sadness, there’s always another feeling that nags at me while at funerals. Envy. Not a lot, but enough to remind me how much I want to go home. I have friends and family that I want to see again. I have parents and grandparents that I’d like to get to know. I have a Savior who I desire to meet face to face.

Do I worry about my loved ones when it’s my time to go? A little, but not too much. I know that God is bigger than grief. I know that He can take better care of them than I ever could. He’s proved that already in my life. I believe that he can get us through anything.

May we remember our responsibilities here, but never forget that we have friends and family waiting in a home prepared just for us (John 14:2-3).

It's time to get excited about eternity and there's nothing wrong with getting a little homesick from time to time.

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In God We Trust

2010-07-14T20:15:00.002-07:00

Is Biblical Authority relevant? Did God create the world in six twenty-four hour days? Did Jesus literally rise from the dead? Is God in control? Will we answer for how we lived our lives someday? And does any of this really matter?

If you’ve ever struggled with such questions then Steve Ham’s new book, In God We Trust, Why Biblical Authority Matters for Every Believer, is for you. Ham is Senior Director of Outreach for Answers in Genesis (a non-profit apologetics ministry) and has no qualms regarding his devout belief in and respect for the authority of God.

The book is separated into 3 sections. The first expounds the substance of authority; while the other sections highlight the authority of the Trinity and the authority in Christian practices including worship and the Christian home.

Ham calls out the Christian family to take back our nation by being the husbands, fathers, wives and mothers that the Lord has called us to be. Throughout the book, Ham declares the difference between opinion, theory, and the word that defines the entire book – authority.

Excellent quotes are sprinkled throughout the book. A few of my favorites follow.

“Today’s gospel is subtly transforming before our eyes into a gospel that is about success, not self-denial. But the gospel of the Bible is about denying ourselves... and it comes at great cost - His Life and ours.”

“The Bible claims absolute authority. It claims to be the Word of God. . . God has claimed authority and given us His Word that reads authoritatively. Whether we want to accept it or not, He has claimed this authority and it is up to critics to prove otherwise.”

“When we match what the Bible says about God’s character and its self-authenticating claims of authenticity, we have a basis of authority that comes from the highest possible source, with the highest possible credibility.”

“God is God and whether we want to attempt to prove it or not does not discount that fact that He is.”

“We so often forget that Genesis is Jesus’ teaching and this is the most common error of the rejection of the authority of His Word today.”

“The same Christ of the gospel is the same Christ of creation.”

“We need to constantly be distrusting of our own desires and consider all in the light of Scripture and God’s authority.”

I’m thankful for people like Steve Ham who aren’t afraid to defend the authority on which we place our lives, love, and salvation and I’m glad that I had the opportunity to review this book. I hope you’ll take the time to sit down with it and consider how important the subject of authority actually is.

Buy Ham's book on Amazon by clicking here.

A copy of In God We Trust was made available to me by New Leaf Publishing Group in return for a review.

Church Camp

2010-07-05T12:17:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite places in the world is West KY Youth Camp. The camp began in the early 60s but the first time I attended was in the mid 70s. I was around five years old at the time. My father was director that week and my mother was a counselor. I can still remember sitting on the front steps of that little cabin and being toted around by the older kids.

I began attending the camp alone when I was 8 and was a Bible class teacher in my late teens. A few years ago, I was asked to join the staff. I look forward to this week every year. Meeting new kids, working alongside other Christians, and just being at the camp is one of the most enjoyable parts of my summer.

My top five favorite things about WKYC:

1. The history.

There are few places in this world where I can walk in the footsteps of my parents. Since they both passed away when I was a kid, being there and walking around the camp brings back several good memories. My parents loved that camp and I’m thankful that my children and I have been able to be a part of it.

2. The singing.

Hearing a hundred or so young people sing Amazing Grace, Farther Along, Sing and Be Happy, or Light the Fire (to name a few) will give you chills. There is nothing more beautiful than hearing these kids lift their voice in praise.

3. It’s Peaceful.

The problems of this world seem to pass away when you’re at church camp. Sure, there is still oil in the Gulf, tension in the Middle East, and political hoopla in the news, but for a few days those troubles don’t consume us. Camp gives us time to refocus our lives and hearts around Jesus.

4. Someone is always laughing.

Laughter is everywhere! Kids are having fun. Adults are relaxing. Good memories are being made. Fun abounds and whether they’re popping 4000+ water balloons, getting their counselors out at Star Wars (Dodge Ball), or just playing around, kids are happy. And when the kids are happy, the counselors are happy, and the world is a better place.

5. The food is great!

Kudos to the kitchen staff! They go above and beyond to feed the kids and staff at camp. Just knowing that your kids will never go hungry at camp should help ease the tension some parents have about their kids being away for an entire week.

Few things are as encouraging as being secluded from the world for a week with other people who love Jesus, His Church, and His Word and nothing is more rewarding than watching young people learn about God’s Word. Knowing that the future of the church is in the hands of these young people is comforting.

The people at church camp aren’t free from problems. Our lives aren’t perfect. We’re not exempt from temptation. We don’t have all the answers but what we do have is a love for God, a love for your children, and a dedication to share our faith with others.

I’m thankful for the people who had a dream to start this camp. I’m thankful for the people who donated the land and for every person who has devoted time, prayers, and money to help WKYC be the place it has become.

And most of all, I’m thankful to God for allowing me to be a part of such a wonderful place.

Do you have a favorite memory of church camp? Feel free to share here.

The Middle

2010-06-24T09:26:00.000-07:00

Why is it so easy to drift away? One minute we're on fire for Jesus. Our lives are going perfect, our days are sunny, life is good. Then all of a sudden, we find ourselves far away from where we need to be.

Stress slips in. Doubt takes over. Satan whispers that we're not good enough. The bills get to us, the kids get on our nerves, our spouse doesn't measure up, and we start to stray. We walk away from that cross and try to find our peace and comfort in a world that doesn't have it.

The middle is a dark, lonely place. I've been there. Have you?

It's never too late to come home.

"Fearless warriors in a picket fence, reckless abandon wrapped in common sense. Deep water faith in the shallow end and we are caught in the middle. With eyes wide open to the differences, the God we want and the God who is. But will we trade our dreams for His or are we caught in the middle?"

Stress and Christians

2010-06-17T18:51:00.000-07:00

There are too many times in the day when I need to stop what I'm doing, be still, and hear Jesus tell me what He told Martha in Luke 10:

"You are worried and troubled about many things.But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.”

I get preoccupied with life and its many troubles and seem to forget Who is in control. Does that ever happen to you?

Lord, help me to be less consumed with the problems of this world and all consumed with You. Please forgive me when I stress out and remind me that You are the only place where we will ever find peace in this crazy, busy world.

My latest article at Forthright is about one of those hectic, stressful times. Check it out here: Forthright.net

The War

2010-06-03T08:58:00.001-07:00

Few topics of conversation generate as much discussion as the war. Stop by An Encouraging Word and share your thoughts here.

At War

The Greatest Generation

2010-06-01T10:05:00.000-07:00

For the past twelve years my family and I have worshiped with a small congregation in western Kentucky. Over those years, we have been blessed to meet and come to love many great Christians.

Sadly, though, we have said good-bye to several this year alone; some lived many years and some were still in their prime. While we are sad to see them leave, we know that we will, one day, be together again.

“Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints” ( Psalm 116:15, ESV). These precious saints left their mark on this world but instead of focusing on their deaths; I would like to take a moment to remember their lives.

I would like to remember them as sons and daughters, husbands and wives, moms and dads, and grandparents. However, most importantly, I would rather remember them as Christians.

Christians who refused to let the troubles of this life determine their destiny. Christians who taught Christ to those they met, whether by words or actions. Christians who weren’t perfect and didn’t convert everyone they met, but stayed faithful until the end, even in the midst of devastating grief, continual trials, and shocking disappointments.

Over the past year, we’ve lost dear ladies who lived Titus 2:3-5. They were reverent in their behavior, refused to belittle others or spread gossip, taught the younger ladies in various ways. They baked meals for the sick, wrote notes of encouragement, and sang, “The Wise Man Built his House upon the Rock” with the children.

The past year we’ve said good-bye to fine men. Faithful men who sought sound doctrine and lived their lives worthy of love and respect. Men who served the Lord by visiting the shut-ins, leading prayers, teaching classes, preaching the Gospel, waiting on the Lord’s table, and serving as elders and deacons.

The deaths of these precious souls may not have made the front page of the local newspaper, but their lives made impacts that will touch generations to come and influence more people than the words of a mere newspaper article ever could. These were great people and they will be sorely missed.

We have colossal shoes to fill. We must step up and fill the roles left behind by those who have fought the good fight and finished the race ( 2 Timothy 4:7). We have an obligation to continue the Lord’s work that each of these precious souls began long before us.

There is no better way to honor the lives of those precious saints who have gone on to their reward than to spend our lives reaching the lost and preaching the Gospel. As we think of those who have passed on this year, and in years past, let us desire to continue their good work and let us remember that the greatest generations aren’t the ones who have lived before us, but the ones, in Christ, who have died before us.

LOST (Spoilers)

2010-05-27T08:54:00.000-07:00

My husband and I don’t watch much television but we did watch LOST. We were captivated from the first episode. Sure, we couldn’t understand everything that was happening (and that was one of its charms) but we fell in love with the story.

Each episode focused on the broken lives of the characters off the island, their second chances and redemption on the island, and continually offered stories of hope, faith, and forgiveness.

While reading posts about the finale recently, I stumbled upon the term “soul cluster”. A writer described the castaways as creating a spiritual group with the other islanders. These people influenced each other and eventually led each person to their final destination. The characters couldn’t pass on (or didn't want to pass on) to eternity without the other members of their inner circle. They had grieved together, rejoiced together, and made their way through that maze of an island together.

I have thought about soul clusters for the past few days. We all have a band of friends or acquaintances who have left lasting impressions on our lives. They are the people who have influenced us (whether good or bad) and because of that, have shaped us into the people we are today.

Not only do we have that group, but we are part of someone else's inner circle. How we treat someone, the words we say, even our attitudes about spiritual and non-spiritual topics influence others for (or against) Christ.

There’s a great finale coming one day. Like the one on television, it may not offer every answer to every mystery and sadly, it may not be exactly like some have planned either. There will be those who will be greatly disappointed when they finally see Jesus and hear him say those words, “I never knew you.”

But there will be others who will be overjoyed. They are the ones who had been lost on this island but had given their lives to Jesus. They didn’t understand everything that happened to them nor did they claim to have all the answers. All they were certain of was the man of God who loved them so much that he laid down his life for them.

Christ lived, he died, and he rose again and He did it all because of you. When you boil life’s problems down, isn't this the only reality that really matters?

God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son so that whoever believes in him may not be lost, but have eternal life. John 3:16

Pants VS Dresses, etc...

2010-05-20T14:56:00.000-07:00

Does it matter how we dress when we come together for worship? Years ago, I would've said yes. (I wouldn't even let my girls wear pants on Sunday mornings.) However, I've changed through the years.

Read the article here

My Playlist

2010-05-15T11:14:00.000-07:00

I love music. Some of the songs on my playlist might surprise you though. I have music by Kenny Rogers, Enya, AC/DC, Martina McBride, Waylon Jennings, Beyonce, GnR, Elton John, Linda Ronstadt, Aerosmith, ABBA, and maybe even a rap song or two (gasp).

There are some songs that I can't listen to enough. These are the ones that help me keep Jesus in the center of my thinking. I want to share them with you here.

Better than a Hallelujah by Amy Grant

The Words I Would Say by Sidewalk Prophets

Cry out to Jesus by Third Day

I Will Rise by Chris Tomlin

I Shall Believe by Matt Brouwer

Before the Morning by Josh Wilson

Praise You in the Storm by Casting Crowns

Glorious Day (One Day) by Casting Crowns

Who Am I? by Casting Crowns

These are just a few. My favorite song changes from day to day though.

What's your favorite?

Lessons Learned from the Prodigal Sun

2010-05-09T18:41:00.000-07:00

Whether it’s time, energy, money or food, we have allowed ourselves to become a wasteful society. Jesus even speaks of being wasteful in the parable of the prodigal son Luke 15:11-32). Not only can we learn about wasteful living in the parable, we can also learn other valuable lessons.

* True happiness will never be found in the world.

The prodigal son thought he would be happy if he had his share of his father’s estate, traveled the world, and spent all his money. Then something unexpected happened. A famine came and he soon found himself in a pig pen. That always happens when we take a detour from God’s will, doesn’t it? We find ourselves in unfamiliar territory, alone and afraid, and facing a spiritual famine. Only when the prodigal came home did he find the meaning of true happiness.

* We all make bad decisions.

The prodigal son’s bad decisions started with demanding his portion of goods, then led to squandering his money on worldly things. God knows that his children don’t always make the best decisions.

Adam and Eve made a bad decision to eat the fruit (Genesis 3). Jacob’s brothers made a bad decision to sell him into slavery (Genesis 37). Peter made a bad decision to deny Christ (Matthew 26, Mark 14, Luke 22, and John 18).

There are so many bad decisions in the Bible, but God loves us and forgives us in spite of those decisions. It doesn’t mean that we or someone we love won’t suffer consequences. What it means is, if we love him dearly and seek him adamantly, he will always be there to help us (Romans 8:28).

* Difficult people can come from anywhere, even within our own family.

The prodigal son’s older brother refused to welcome his brother home. Instead he threw a fit that would rival a two year old (Luke 15:28-30). Family turmoil can be very difficult. God knows this and gave us many examples of family issues in the Bible.

Abram and Sarai had problems long before they were Abraham and Sarah. Even King David’s family was overwhelmed with troubles. All families whether they are in the Bible or in twenty-first century America and beyond suffer from problems, yet God provides comfort and peace in the midst of our trials.

* There is One who will always forgive.

The prodigal son’s father was more than willing to forgive his son. “But when he was still a great way off, his father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him” ( Luke 15:20 NKJV).

Forgiveness is not easy; however, in striving to become more like Jesus, we must be willing to forgive. Jesus asked the Father to forgive his murderers long before they asked to be forgiven (Luke 23:34). Jesus didn’t hold grudges and he didn’t rehash old wounds either. He forgave, forgot, and went on. We should strive to do the same.

A wise person once said, “Sometimes it takes losing all you have to realize that God is all you need.” The prodigal son learned this lesson the hard way and, sadly, we too, sometimes find ourselves in the pig pen long before we come to our senses (Luke 15:17).

Today, let us remember the many lessons from the parable of the prodigal son and use them to live more meaningful lives for Christ.

Warning!

2010-04-30T14:09:00.000-07:00

A couple of prime warnings in the Bible are found in Phillipians 4.

Paul said, “I plead with Euodia and I plead with Syntyche to agree with each other in the Lord. Yes, and I ask you, loyal yokefellow, help these women who have contended at my side in the cause of the gospel, along with Clement and the rest of my fellow workers, whose names are in the book of life.”

These were church-going Christian women who had been helping the Apostle Paul spread the Gospel. They did great things for the Lord but He didn’t want us to know them for the good they had done. He wanted us to know them for another reason.

They were hurting the church at Phillipi. We don’t know what they were doing but we do know what they weren’t doing. They weren’t getting along. They weren’t loving each other the way God intended. They weren’t being the godly women that they had been and could’ve been.

May we never be so arrogant and prideful that we hurt or split the church of God and may we always be the example and never the warning.

The Big Picture

2010-04-08T09:30:00.000-07:00

Check out the new article here:

Forthright

God don't make bad decisions!

2010-03-31T19:00:00.000-07:00

One of my greatest joys is teaching the Wednesday night Kindergarten Bible class. These five and six year olds keep me on my toes and help me sleep very well on Wednesday nights.

Tonight’s lesson was about King Joash (2 Kings 11). He was only seven years old when he became King of Judah and out of love for God, this young man, restored the temple.

I made a big deal out of Joash only being seven and even said, “Did you know that seven year olds could be king?” I was quickly informed by a cute little boy, “That doesn’t happen anymore ‘cause my sister turned seven and she didn’t become King!”

Some of the students thought that maybe having a 7 year old king wasn’t a good idea (apparently, there are some 7 years old, known to people in my class, that are mean to dogs). Right when I thought I had lost control, one boy set the class straight when he said, “God don’t make bad decisions.”

I couldn’t have said it better myself.

Near the end of the class, one boy declared that when he grew up, he was going to be a preacher! I was so proud and then he added, "Only if the monster-truck driving thing doesn't work out."

I hope you’re teaching a Bible class and I especially want to encourage you to get involved in a children’s Bible class. These kids need to see faithful men and women, besides their parents, who love God and His Word. They need you and, trust me, you need them.

Letters from the Lamb

2010-03-20T08:20:00.000-07:00

I love Biblical archeology so when I heard about the new book by Tim Archer and Steve Ridgell, I couldn't wait to read it.

Not only does the easy-to-read study book offer Biblical insight and modern day spiritual applications, it also provides trivia on the seven cities in Revelation, a plus for history buffs.

Each chapter is broken into two parts: the first section is packed with historical information concerning the lives of our brothers and sisters in the first century while the second offers timely advice and encouragement for Christians living in this age.

Whether you’re in a Bible class setting or for your own personal study, do yourself a favor and spend a couple of hours with this book. You’ll be glad you did.

Click here to order your copy from 21st Century Christian.

Passing the Torch

2010-03-02T13:48:00.001-08:00

Thanks to John Dobbs for this brilliant idea. Here is the list of contributors: Passing the Torch